There is one trick to meeting a woman in a night club or bar though.  You must find areas within the nightclub or bar that are not extremely noisy.  If you have to shout at a woman it’s going to be very hard to get to know her, let alone pick her up and take her home.

If the nightclub or bar has a dance floor, by all means ask a woman to dance.  You do not have to be a great dancer.  After a few drinks, who really cares? On the dance floor you can get closer to a woman and make it much easier to talk to each other.

Going to a nightclub or bar during the week increases your odds at picking up a woman much more than going on weekends.  It’s usually less crowded and much more quiet.

Let me give you some insider information here. Most women when they really want to meet a guy go to low-key bars that are dimly lit and not noisy. They avoid noisy bars. Most women like to talk and get to know a guy. They can’t do that in a noisy bar.

Start making it a habit of going to quiet dark lighted bars during the week and you will increase your chances of meeting women that want to meet you.

If the bar has a pool table, use it to your advantage. Playing a game of pool allows for great conversation and a little competitive play. You don’t have to be good at pool to have fun and meet women.

One warning. Do not act all macho when you play pool. You know what I mean. Hitting the ball so hard like you are trying to put it through the wall. That is a big turnoff for most women. Most women can’t stand show-offs and macho men.

Also don’t give the girl you are playing pool with pointers unless she asks for your help. Women don’t like being made to feel inferior.

Now for the number one pickup line you can use in bars.

Just be yourself and say hi. It’s that simple. If you see a woman you like, just go up and say hi and introduce yourself. If she does not respond well to you then she is most likely not interested in you. If she introduces herself back, looks you in the eyes and smiles she is most likely interested in meeting you. Continue with small talk and see where it goes.

If you see her starting to feel uncomfortable, tell her it was nice meeting her and move to another area of the bar. Come back later and then resume the conversation.

If she does not seem interested in you, go back to your table or area of the bar. Wait a little bit before you approach another woman. Here is why. The woman you just approached may just be shy or you startled her. Look over her way every now and then and see if she is looking back at you. If she is, try to approach her later that night.

Book Stores – Book stores are very good places to find and meet single women. Especially the larger book stores that have coffee shops in them or attached to them. Looking to meet a woman that likes to cook? See what women are browsing the cooking section. Looking to meet a female geek? Check who is browsing the computer section.

Dance Schools – Like to dance? Want to learn how to dance? What better place to find and meet women than a place where you get to dance with many women. Most dance schools have you change partners all the time. This way you get to meet lots of women in a no pressure atmosphere.

Laundromats – Laundromats are normally filled with all types of women that are bored to death. How would you like to be the only guy in the room with 15 or 20 bored women? This is a great place to start getting to know single women in your area.

Local Bars – Bars and clubs have always been one of the top places to go to meet women for years. Let me give you a hint here. Go to the quieter clubs and bars where you can actually hold a conversation without yelling. Women truly looking to meet men tend to go to the quieter clubs where they can actually have a conversation with the men they want to meet.

Video Stores – Do you enjoy watching videos? Well, so do most women. Next time you are at the local video rental store, take a few seconds and look around. You will most likely notice lots of single women.

Supermarkets – I’m talking the major big name supermarkets. Guys! These actually have food you cook and not just microwave. Women are at ease while grocery shopping. They don’t have their normal guard up like they do in regular pick up spots like nightclubs.

The above places are some of the top places to find and meet women to date. Just get out of the house and drive around town and visit these places. See what one or ones you feel the most comfortable in. Then start visiting them several times a week and start meeting all types of new women.