There is one trick to meeting a woman in a night club or bar though.  You must find areas within the nightclub or bar that are not extremely noisy.  If you have to shout at a woman it’s going to be very hard to get to know her, let alone pick her up and take her home.

If the nightclub or bar has a dance floor, by all means ask a woman to dance.  You do not have to be a great dancer.  After a few drinks, who really cares? On the dance floor you can get closer to a woman and make it much easier to talk to each other.

Going to a nightclub or bar during the week increases your odds at picking up a woman much more than going on weekends.  It’s usually less crowded and much more quiet.

Let me give you some insider information here. Most women when they really want to meet a guy go to low-key bars that are dimly lit and not noisy. They avoid noisy bars. Most women like to talk and get to know a guy. They can’t do that in a noisy bar.

Start making it a habit of going to quiet dark lighted bars during the week and you will increase your chances of meeting women that want to meet you.

If the bar has a pool table, use it to your advantage. Playing a game of pool allows for great conversation and a little competitive play. You don’t have to be good at pool to have fun and meet women.

One warning. Do not act all macho when you play pool. You know what I mean. Hitting the ball so hard like you are trying to put it through the wall. That is a big turnoff for most women. Most women can’t stand show-offs and macho men.

Also don’t give the girl you are playing pool with pointers unless she asks for your help. Women don’t like being made to feel inferior.

Now for the number one pickup line you can use in bars.

Just be yourself and say hi. It’s that simple. If you see a woman you like, just go up and say hi and introduce yourself. If she does not respond well to you then she is most likely not interested in you. If she introduces herself back, looks you in the eyes and smiles she is most likely interested in meeting you. Continue with small talk and see where it goes.

If you see her starting to feel uncomfortable, tell her it was nice meeting her and move to another area of the bar. Come back later and then resume the conversation.

If she does not seem interested in you, go back to your table or area of the bar. Wait a little bit before you approach another woman. Here is why. The woman you just approached may just be shy or you startled her. Look over her way every now and then and see if she is looking back at you. If she is, try to approach her later that night.